»What would you not forgive your love partner?«
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 Register first to vote here posted by knn |
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| in-my-opinion.orgGirls and Boys, Body & Health, Food & Diet, Home & GardenDiets, Medicine, Food, Body, Workout, SexualityWhat would you not forgive your love partner? |
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 For me if there's a reason that would make me leave my partner, that's if he lied to me. Cheating sucks (I don't know how it feels, never been cheated on, but I've got an idea...) but if he cheated and lies about it sucks even more. Lie is degrading. I voted "constantly antagonistic against your religion and hobbies" because even if you love the person, constant fights will help it. But you know what's worse? When your partner doesn't hear you. It's not exactly that he doesn't love you, he does. But he completely fails to understand how you really feel. And takes some of your serious worries as something not worth thinking about. When he doesn't hear what you try to say - and still considers himself a great man just because he doesn't cheat on you and helps you from time to time. "What else do you want?" Hehe, some of the personal experience coming out...  posted by mymla |
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 ..she would be out the door, if she lies she is out the door, if she sits on her ass all day and doesnt pull her weight then she's out the door. It's common sense and decency, trust and of course love. Have those you got it made  posted by Crossfade |
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what, is no one going to defend unconditional love? posted by 4thedefender |
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 Are you saying if you love someone unconditionaly and they cheat on you you should forgive them? posted by Crossfade |
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Nice to see that no one cares if the partner has lost your money. So one can do that from time to time without a fear that they will be kicked out of the house. Quote: if you love someone unconditionaly and they cheat on you you should forgive them Yeah well that's the problem of the unconditional love I guess Everybody in their right senses want to be loved for what they are, because everyone is sure they are worth it. And they are. But if your unconditionally loved husband/wife starts to be lazy, rude and promiscuous there will be a point when you will feel like liking them a bit less... Because liking something bad makes you worse - if you like and approve of the wrong thing, you will make it worse.
Ok, I am all for unconditional love. Which for me means that statements like "I will only love my child if he will be good at school" is a no-go. On the other hand, children and spoused are different, right? Because it looks like for spouses there are conditions... posted by mymla |
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 mymla: Nice to see that no one cares if the partner has lost your money. So one can do that from time to time without a fear that they will be kicked out of the house. I doubt that this wouldn't cause any problems. This would cause a great deal of tension between a couple. It's one of those things you never forget. And something that is almost certain to come up at arguments. For example, when a couple is fighting and someone blurts out, "Oh, yeah? Well, that's nothing compared to the time you lost those $100,000 of mine!" So, probably the one that lost the money is actually the one who will want to part, because he/she doesn't want to take shit for that for the rest of his/her life. posted by Echelon |
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Quote: when a couple is fighting and someone blurts out, "Oh, yeah? Well, that's nothing compared to the time you lost those $100,000 of mine!" So it's basically the summ that matters you think? 'Cause if you take three O's off, you cannot really use it as an argument. Even if it happened a few (dozens of) times. Quote: probably the one that lost the money is actually the one who will want to part, because he/she doesn't want to take shit for that for the rest of his/her life. Nah, if that partner will want to leave, it won't be because the money was lost, but because the partner turned out to be so lame that (s)he points it out every time. Quote: It's one of those things you never forget. And something that is almost certain to come up at arguments. Anything may come up as an argument in a quarrel when things go bad. But true, somebody losing your money isn't something you can easily forget. I would say that I wouldn't mention such summ lost by my partner if he didn't do it intentionally. I wouldn't however forgive my partner gambling away our common property and money. That is something that drives me crazy. I would forgive huge money losses, but I would prefer to know what is going on and why we are losing the money. posted by mymla |
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 If she told me she'd cheated with another girl. Now if she told me before, I think we could work through it  posted by Marl64 |
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 If she would first cheat and then lie about it. posted by Redguard |
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