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 ok so im in a situation that i need alittle love advice from. im anonoyed by this situation. it eats at me. so i told a girl i liked her and she gave me the "lets just be friends" speech. ok that's fine. but what annoys me is she acts weird sometimes now. she now knows i like ker and we talk everyday. but its getting harder to be around her. cause its like she wants a relationship right now or she says but when i say hey lets go on a date shes like no. its confuses me. people say she led me on but i have no idea what to do...please help me! im so annoyed rightn ow posted by Agent Zero |
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| in-my-opinion.orgGirls and Boys, Body & Health, Food & Diet, Home & GardenDiets, Medicine, Food, Body, Workout, Sexualityuh girls....im annoyed by them |
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 That you in your avatar? 
Hrmm, I've always feared the whole 'let's just be friends thing', it really puts a vice on the balls! Set things straight, ask her why not or something & just get the whole thing out of the way, having it on your mind for too long can be worse than her saying no! Just talk to her about it, only advice I can think of!  posted by hungarian kid |
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yah sure that's me...*cough* no its J-TIMBA or uh justin timberlake! anyways...tahnks but that's the problem i don't like bringing it up cause it hurts too much i don't want to stop being her friend cause that would crush me. i like hanging out with her...i mean that's good advice but i don't know how to approach her. i really don't know if i should just let everything hang out and tell exactly how i feel. see i think it will be better if i did that like right before she leaves for school that way its easier to let her go. i don't know. im so cinfused about it all i hate feeling like htis. ITS SO ANNOYING...wheres GP when i need him. he knows about the relationship stuff! sorry kid. i really aprriciate you trying to help...and yes it sucks worst then anything...its the worst rejection ever just to let you know. next time you tell a girl you like her make sure your reading the signs right posted by Agent Zero |
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GP would be alot better for this, I'm pretty inexperienced! But sometimes, if you feel it's right, you've just gotta go for something! Don't give up on something that could turn out to be the best thing that's ever happened to you! posted by hungarian kid |
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you know how many people have told me that? its crazy...i feel so strongly about her its insane. i mean she really hurt me like no otehr girl has ever before i mean (don't tell people this but) she made me cry...really she did. but now our realtionship is still pretty much the same it was before that. we talk constantly on IM or on the phone or we see eachother pretty much everyday...like the last three night ive seen her. tomarrow we are going to a baseball game together and stuff. alot of people thought we were allready dating. i just don't get ehy she doesnt like me. she tells me all the time im the sweetest guy she has ever met. and tells me that im really great and stuff. but i wonder why she wont date me. i think she is as scared as me to lose eachother as friends. but i don't think i can be satisfied with just that forever...i just want to be with her. her parents love me and think im the coolest. she thinks im great but not in the way i want...im totally confused by this...it could be the best or the worst too. if you have one. there is always the other one. it just sucks posted by Agent Zero |
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 We cannot judge her without a few posts by her  posted by knn |
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Sound's like she's got some reasons, maybe a fear of commitment or just fear of the feelings she might feel for you! Has she got any friends she talks to (ones that might tell you what you need to know)? posted by hungarian kid |
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knn knn knn...you make me so sad sometimes...she will never come here...sorry. but yah me and her hang out with this other girl that's we are both pretty good friend with. so i always try to have this girl dig for information from the girl i like. it doesnt really work that well. i don't know why but sometimes i wonder if she does know stuff and just doesnt want to tell me. like she acts like she knows more than whats she is saying. sometimes even hints at stuff sometimes. i wish i knew what they were thinking sometimes. im waiting till they talk on the phone more so then i can have her dig for me more. but i part of me doesnt want to know the truth cause im scared that it will hurt too bad...you know what i mean? but i usually dwell on the negative...so if anything positive happens it will be good for me. but i don't get is that things i learned and thought they were signs like my mom and her mom worked together 21 years ago...that's crazy to think. they know eachother. this just recently came out and i was like...is this a sign. cause her mom has known me since before i was born! you know. but i don't know. its annoying isnt it? posted by Agent Zero |
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 Quote: Has she got any friends she talks to (ones that might tell you what you need to know)? don't have her friend dig to find stuff out, ask her if she knows the reason she doesn't want to be more than just friends, put her on the spot so she's has to answer you, even if it hurts, it will be better then moving on and never knowing right? posted by The ONEder Man |
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 you gotta let her know...or ya let her go if you don't...you'll regret it mate...trust me...i know...ive checked posted by the anomaly |
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yah but that's the thing is that i don't want to get hurt im so sick of it...she totally knows how to. and has done it more than once. now she doesnt do it on purpose but its pretty annoying to hear her talk about certain things or joke about certain things. like the other day when we went to the movies. there was a part where a main character said "why don't you just ask her out" and she laughed and looked at me to say something i guess then realized that maybe she shoudlnt say it. but i know it ws gonna be a crack about me telling her i like her. well i just assume that but most of the time i assume right...i don't know...whats the best way to say hey listen im falling in love with you? posted by Agent Zero |
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 You gotta let her know how you feel and then what ever the outcome stick to your decision. I've got a friend I'm always giving the "I only want to be friends and nothing more" speech to as he never gives up asking, even how ever much I tell him no. Which does get very annoying but we are still good friends. So it just depends on what you decide, if you can't manage to stay friends however much it hurts, you'll have to let her go. posted by zesja |
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 maybe that will help zero figure out his...  posted by The ONEder Man |
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Lets say its personal habits & not seeing him in that  way  posted by zesja |
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well that's nice but today was horrible with her...i don't know why but im starting to think she is intentinally trying to hurt me. i got the fucking point. so i sent her a long email telling her everything and saying how i feel. then i told her we should probably talk and stuff. so im hopeing it will work itself out. casue right now i fucking hate the bitch posted by Agent Zero |
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