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What is the right LEGAL age of consent (= the minimum age your sexual partner must have)

   
16 years (most countries)
43%
 43%  [ 10 ]
18 years
26%
 26%  [ 6 ]
15 years
13%
 13%  [ 3 ]
17 years
4%
 4%  [ 1 ]
14 years (many countries)
4%
 4%  [ 1 ]
12 years (some countries)
4%
 4%  [ 1 ]
> 18 years (specify in your post)
4%
 4%  [ 1 ]
13 years (some countries)
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
< 12 years (specify in your post)
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Should be variable = depending on body features (e.g. if the person has pubic hair, then it's legal)
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
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Number of counted votes: 23




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posted by knn

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average



I vote 15 because I think it is an average age. It's really hard to say because in different countries and in different climates things differ greatly.

posted by mymla
  

Perspective



This is one of those things that changes with age.

When I was a teen, I probably would have said lower, now I'm older - I don't.

Kids are far too keen to grow up - but they always have been - in the Town where I live, they let them in Nightclubs from the Age of 12. When I was twelve I still had toys. Shocked

If I could offer anything to the next generation it would be this;

Treasure the time you have as a child / teen, don't be in too much rush to be an adult, it's not as much fun as the brochure makes out. White laugh

Sex is a lot of fun, but you have to be aware that it often costs you more than you realise. There are far too many teen mums in Britain today - and far too few teen dads. What the...?

posted by Marl64
  

Age of consent 11



Many believe that the age of consent is set at 16 because that's the 'average' age for first sex.
In fact, the age of consent was set at 16 in a bid to stop Victorian child prostitution. In 1885, a journalist, William Stead, wrote a campaigning article describing how he had managed to procure a girl of 11. The resulting outcry added weight to a campaign headed by social reformer Josephine Butler and led to the age of consent being raised to 16. Previously, in 1875, it was set at 13; before that, it was 12, deriving from the 1275 Statutes of Westminster.
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  • In Spain, the age of consent is set low, at 13: yet the average age of first sex for girls is 19 and for boys, 18.
  • In Mali, the age of consent is 16, but most young people wait until a year later.
  • In California, the age of consent is 18, but most have sex between 16 and 17.
  • The age of consent in France, Sweden and Denmark is 15.
  • In Italy and Canada, it is 14.
  • In Japan, 13.
  • In Chile, it's 12.
  • In Portugal and the Netherlands, teenagers between 12 and 16 can have consensual sex with their peers (often called age-gap legislation), otherwise the age of consent is 16.




posted by knn
  



What is the point of having an 'age of consent'?
• to ensure that the person has sufficient faculty to make such a decision
• to ensure that the person may be capable of fending for more than himself/herself if it came to that
• ...


I think it should be 18. Perhaps if a country is pushing it, 16 would be ok. Because, assuming that they're not delinquent or something and would actually follow the law, 18 is sufficient to have some sort of high school education to ensure some sort of job, while being a high school drop-out wouldn't be that useful. And being 18, one would have had sufficient arguments with one's parents, and enough exposure to birth-control, and presumably sufficient sound judgement to match an adult's.

Did you add the physical characteristics option newly, knn? Why?


posted by ryder
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ryder:
What is the point of having an 'age of consent'?

Only to have legally binding age to either prosecute or not prosecute.

The alternative is the following (was done in some countries):
To check whether a person (at the time of the sex) was already sexually developed (pubic hairs etc). For example one could argue that a 9year-old with pubic hairs was not raped.

The drawback of this is that these kids have to undergo an embarassing medical examination which will be presented in court.
ryder:
Did you add the physical characteristics option newly, knn? Why?

Because some countries do it /did it.
ryder:
18 is sufficient to have some sort of high school education to ensure some sort of job

What has that to do with anything?


posted by knn
  



knn:
Only to have legally binding age to either prosecute or not prosecute.

That's only from the point of view of a court. What about social impact? Isn't an age of consent also for the benefit of the person himself, in that he cannot enter into a contract until that time, and therefore won't set off events out of his control?
knn:
What has that to do with anything?

The fact that the 'real' point of sex is to have kids, and that the partners can cope with that consequence should it arise.


posted by ryder
  



ryder:
That's only from the point of view of a court. What about social impact?

This thread is ONLY about the legality. I have clarified the poll.
ryder:
The fact that the 'real' point of sex is to have kids, and that the partners can cope with that consequence should it arise.

1) That's too Catholic
2) Then the age of consent would be 30+ when both partners have enough money.

However, these ideas are offtopic here.


posted by knn
  



ryder:
The fact that the 'real' point of sex is to have kids

There are plenty of couples who choose not to have children but who have lots of sex. Are you saying they're "doing it" wrong?


posted by Tiefling
  



Tiefling:
There are plenty of couples who choose not to have children but who have lots of sex.

knn:
1) That's too Catholic

Silly and stupid, that's how I feel

I don't see National Geographic talking about animals having sex only for the pleasure associated with it. I thought this was a normal thing to say - why was sex developed for humans? So that they could procreate. I did not say that people had sex only to have children, I said that the reason why it exists was to create offspring. Even my former bio text would agree.


posted by ryder
  



You said that the "real" point of sex is to produce offspring. So I reiterate --- you're saying that people having sex for pleasure are having sex for the wrong reason?

posted by Tiefling
  



Tiefling:
you're saying that people having sex for pleasure are having sex for the wrong reason?

Sex for the side-effects - not to have kids, only for the experience or whatever. Perhaps not the 'wrong' reason but yes not the 'natural' reason either.

I reiterate as well
ryder:
I don't see National Geographic talking about animals having sex only for the pleasure associated with it.

But we shouldn't be discussing why people have sex, sorry to drag you into it.


posted by ryder
  



ryder:
Perhaps not the 'wrong' reason but not the 'natural' reason.

Well if we're deciding when people can legally have sex based on the "natural" reason for it (producing offspring), then we should put the age at the point of sexual maturity, which is definitely younger than 18.


posted by Tiefling
  



ryder:
why was sex developed for humans?

Sex was -developed- for humans? Do you know anything we mortal earthlings don't know?


posted by knn
  



Tiefling:
based on the "natural" reason for it (producing offspring)

Tiefling:
we should put the age at the point of sexual maturity, which is definitely younger than 18.

I'm not saying this is untrue, but the "natural" reason is also to assist the survival of the species.. a 15 year old girl is certainly not fit to be a mother with a 15 year old father - they can barely afford their education, don't have enough of it to find decent work, social stigma that prevents own family from helping.. If they go through with a pregnancy termination then the girl experiences stress she could have done without. If they don't, then they are wrongly imposing their error on an innocent life which will be exposed to below par existence.

A 10-12 year old who presumably is just getting over the idea that he will probably never meet GIJoe and Santa was just his dad in a costume and ew cooties and oh i wasn't listening in class why did my teacher put the condom on the banana.. fathering a child? US prisoner


posted by ryder
  



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